1 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:11,264 The road to sexual fulfillment can reveal new discoveries at every turn 2 00:00:12,032 --> 00:00:18,176 Keeping an intimate relationship exciting requires creativity explor 3 00:00:18,432 --> 00:00:24,576 An openness between partners while it might be easy to do what's most familiar and comfortable 4 00:00:24,832 --> 00:00:30,976 Washable to you you may be missing out on what can be new and stimulating in your love making 5 00:00:31,232 --> 00:00:33,024 Now we unveil 6 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:34,816 Our best kept secrets 7 00:00:35,328 --> 00:00:41,472 Sure to enhance your journey towards ecstasy by opening up new avenues of discovery 8 00:00:41,728 --> 00:00:45,824 For you and your lover settle in as we unlock 9 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:52,224 Play Boys best have sex secrets 10 00:00:52,992 --> 00:00:59,136 A kiss is never Just a Kiss 11 00:01:11,936 --> 00:01:13,216 An exclamation point 12 00:01:13,472 --> 00:01:14,752 Or a question mark 13 00:01:15,520 --> 00:01:21,664 You can express your deepest erotic feelings with your lips because kissing is the language of intimacy 14 00:01:22,944 --> 00:01:26,528 Add a pleasant twist to your kiss by licking the corners of your Lover's mouth 15 00:01:28,064 --> 00:01:30,368 A sensitive in little known erogenous Zone 16 00:01:31,136 --> 00:01:36,768 Express yourself with murmurs and prayers to let your lover know how much you enjoy every kiss 17 00:01:37,536 --> 00:01:39,072 Be playful with your kisses 18 00:01:39,328 --> 00:01:42,144 Tease your partner with two small kisses 19 00:01:42,656 --> 00:01:45,984 Then move in as if you're going to kiss him a third time but 20 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:48,032 Stop just a fraction of an inch 21 00:01:48,288 --> 00:01:49,568 Before you make contact 22 00:01:51,616 --> 00:01:54,432 This will draw his lips to yours like a magnet 23 00:02:01,088 --> 00:02:03,392 Tug her lip between your teeth for a few moments 24 00:02:04,672 --> 00:02:07,232 Then let go and repeat immediately 25 00:02:09,536 --> 00:02:13,376 Every inch of your Lover's body becomes a candidate for a loving kiss 26 00:02:14,656 --> 00:02:16,448 Flick your tongue over your partner's skin 27 00:02:17,728 --> 00:02:20,544 Lick broadly as if you're enjoying an ice cream cone 28 00:02:21,568 --> 00:02:23,104 Liquor skin and blow 29 00:02:23,872 --> 00:02:24,896 With lips Pur 30 00:02:25,152 --> 00:02:26,432 What's or with your mouth open 31 00:02:26,688 --> 00:02:30,784 To create tingling Sensations on the surface of your Lover's body 32 00:02:37,696 --> 00:02:41,536 Extended foreplay means extended love 33 00:02:45,888 --> 00:02:49,216 Paying attention to the elements of Seduction and romance 34 00:02:49,472 --> 00:02:52,544 Is another secret to establishing a relationship 35 00:02:53,056 --> 00:02:55,104 That will be continually seductive 36 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:57,152 An endlessly romantic 37 00:02:58,176 --> 00:03:00,992 The intimate rhythms you share in your 38 00:03:01,504 --> 00:03:04,320 Are a Prelude to the lovemaking to come 39 00:03:05,088 --> 00:03:10,208 Foreplay is the most intimate and the most directly arousing form of Seduction 40 00:03:11,232 --> 00:03:12,256 Take your time 41 00:03:13,024 --> 00:03:14,304 Take lots of time 42 00:03:15,328 --> 00:03:19,680 If your approach to four plays effective in getting your lover excited 43 00:03:20,192 --> 00:03:21,728 Taking twice as long 44 00:03:21,984 --> 00:03:22,752 Mets 45 00:03:23,008 --> 00:03:24,288 Twice as excited 46 00:03:25,312 --> 00:03:27,872 Seduction is a game played by two 47 00:03:28,384 --> 00:03:34,528 In the wink of an eye 48 00:04:59,775 --> 00:05:05,919 We're the same perfume 49 00:05:06,175 --> 00:05:07,455 Every time you make love 50 00:05:07,967 --> 00:05:11,807 Your partner will begin to associate the scent of this perfume 51 00:05:12,063 --> 00:05:12,831 With 52 00:05:13,855 --> 00:05:19,743 Erotic imagination anytime you like 53 00:05:20,767 --> 00:05:24,607 A drop of perfume on an unexpected part of your body 54 00:05:25,119 --> 00:05:26,655 Can you send a subtle message 55 00:05:27,167 --> 00:05:29,983 But you like special attention pay to this spot 56 00:05:31,007 --> 00:05:32,543 Sexy lingerie 57 00:05:33,055 --> 00:05:35,615 Flower petals sprinkled across the bed 58 00:05:36,383 --> 00:05:38,175 Scented massage oil 59 00:05:38,687 --> 00:05:40,223 A feather for tickling 60 00:05:45,343 --> 00:05:46,879 Use your imagination 61 00:05:47,647 --> 00:05:51,999 Prepare an experience that will enchant and Inspire your lover 62 00:05:52,767 --> 00:05:56,607 Love making shouldn't be a headlong Rush toward orgasm 63 00:05:57,631 --> 00:06:00,191 Think of it as a Melody to be enjoyed 64 00:06:00,703 --> 00:06:01,983 Measure by measure 65 00:06:03,007 --> 00:06:05,823 If you make a habit of Seduction and romance 66 00:06:06,335 --> 00:06:08,127 They'll become second nature 67 00:06:08,639 --> 00:06:10,943 A natural part of your relationship 68 00:06:11,455 --> 00:06:14,015 Enriching your lives together now 69 00:06:14,527 --> 00:06:17,087 And long into the future 70 00:06:57,791 --> 00:07:01,631 Don't keep on pleases you to yourself 71 00:07:06,751 --> 00:07:10,591 Share the small details about your lover that amuse and Captivate you 72 00:07:25,695 --> 00:07:26,975 When you talk dirty to me 73 00:07:45,663 --> 00:07:47,455 Will you hold my face when you kiss me 74 00:08:28,415 --> 00:08:31,231 Little things you never thought you'd tell anyone 75 00:08:33,279 --> 00:08:35,071 Become a bridge to intimacy 76 00:08:45,055 --> 00:08:47,615 Then make you hard 77 00:09:03,487 --> 00:09:05,023 I don't know why but 78 00:09:13,215 --> 00:09:15,263 We all have a basic human need 79 00:09:15,519 --> 00:09:17,311 To feel loved and desired 80 00:09:18,591 --> 00:09:20,895 The Quiet Moments after you've made love 81 00:09:21,151 --> 00:09:23,967 Can be the perfect time for intimate conversation 82 00:09:26,271 --> 00:09:27,295 You're both relaxed 83 00:09:27,551 --> 00:09:28,063 And Conte 84 00:09:28,831 --> 00:09:31,391 Warmly filled with an appreciation of each other 85 00:09:32,671 --> 00:09:34,719 Take advantage of this trusting environment 86 00:09:35,231 --> 00:09:35,999 To open up 87 00:09:36,255 --> 00:09:37,791 And get even closer to each other 88 00:09:39,583 --> 00:09:41,119 Get to know each other's thought 89 00:09:41,375 --> 00:09:42,143 Nuts and feelings 90 00:09:42,911 --> 00:09:44,703 As you've come to know each other's body 91 00:09:46,751 --> 00:09:49,567 Can require a certain vulnerability 92 00:09:50,079 --> 00:09:52,639 So it's important to create an atmosphere of acceptance 93 00:09:53,919 --> 00:09:55,199 This isn't a time for judgment 94 00:09:56,223 --> 00:09:58,015 It's a time for appreciation 95 00:10:48,447 --> 00:10:54,591 The single 96 00:10:54,847 --> 00:10:56,895 What's the most important element of a lasting relationship 97 00:10:57,663 --> 00:10:58,431 Is honesty 98 00:10:59,455 --> 00:11:01,759 As you learn to communicate openly with each other 99 00:11:02,271 --> 00:11:03,807 You'll develop a sense of trust 100 00:11:04,575 --> 00:11:07,135 A key factor in any strong relationship 101 00:11:10,719 --> 00:11:11,487 Dream 102 00:11:11,743 --> 00:11:12,511 And wishes 103 00:11:13,535 --> 00:11:15,071 Between trusting partners 104 00:11:15,583 --> 00:11:19,167 No emotion and no idea need go ins 105 00:11:55,263 --> 00:11:56,799 The intimacy you've developed 106 00:11:57,055 --> 00:11:59,615 Will almost certainly lead to a deeper desire 107 00:11:59,871 --> 00:12:02,431 To provide your lover with pleasure and happiness 108 00:12:03,711 --> 00:12:07,039 Consider trading stories of your first sexual discoveries 109 00:12:08,319 --> 00:12:10,111 Reveal a special dream 110 00:12:52,863 --> 00:12:56,447 Might lead to the sexiest moments of your entire relationship 111 00:12:57,471 --> 00:13:00,287 But making a conscious effort to develop intimacy 112 00:13:00,799 --> 00:13:03,103 Isn't just a great way to spend time together 113 00:13:04,127 --> 00:13:07,455 It's a process that will enhance and enrich your lives 114 00:13:07,711 --> 00:13:09,503 For the duration of your relationship 115 00:13:52,511 --> 00:13:55,071 Exploring each other this way can be reveal 116 00:13:55,327 --> 00:13:56,095 Rewarding 117 00:13:56,351 --> 00:13:57,119 Add romantic 118 00:13:57,887 --> 00:14:01,471 Intimacy that can take you from lovers 119 00:14:01,727 --> 00:14:03,775 To lifelong companions 120 00:14:12,223 --> 00:14:13,247 Exploring your mind 121 00:14:21,439 --> 00:14:26,047 Play acting leads to pleasurable play 122 00:14:30,911 --> 00:14:35,775 Another secret to keeping your relationship exciting and fresh 123 00:14:36,287 --> 00:14:37,311 Is to play Act 124 00:14:37,567 --> 00:14:40,127 Like you and your partner are strangers 125 00:14:40,895 --> 00:14:44,479 Plan a scenario that you and your lover can play out together 126 00:14:44,991 --> 00:14:46,015 Invite him to 127 00:14:46,271 --> 00:14:47,551 Play secret rendezvous 128 00:14:48,063 --> 00:14:49,599 With some investigation 129 00:14:49,855 --> 00:14:52,671 You can find a nice place to rent or borrow 130 00:14:53,439 --> 00:14:56,511 Time and place to meet 131 00:14:57,023 --> 00:14:57,791 And 132 00:14:58,047 --> 00:14:58,815 Is arrival 133 00:15:00,095 --> 00:15:03,935 Play the role of the seductive stranger as you greet him 134 00:15:04,191 --> 00:15:07,007 And lead him into the exciting plan 135 00:15:07,263 --> 00:15:08,287 You've design 136 00:15:14,431 --> 00:15:20,575 Hi I was told to come to this address 137 00:15:20,831 --> 00:15:22,623 You're in the right place 138 00:15:31,071 --> 00:15:37,215 Good morning 139 00:15:43,615 --> 00:15:44,383 Thanks 140 00:15:44,639 --> 00:15:48,223 Make yourself at home I'm going to get us some drinks 141 00:15:49,247 --> 00:15:52,831 Play acting can be a great way to get past your inhibitions 142 00:15:53,599 --> 00:15:54,879 Discover new pleasures 143 00:16:17,151 --> 00:16:18,175 Don't be shy 144 00:16:18,687 --> 00:16:21,759 Take the lead and really play the role 145 00:16:22,527 --> 00:16:25,855 How often have you thought it would be fun to play the vixen 146 00:16:26,367 --> 00:16:31,743 It would be exciting to be drawn into the lair and said 147 00:16:33,279 --> 00:16:36,351 Make sure you don't tell him what you planned 148 00:16:36,863 --> 00:16:38,911 Part of the excitement for both of you 149 00:16:39,167 --> 00:16:43,007 Will be your lovers curiosity and anticipation 150 00:16:44,287 --> 00:16:46,335 Sometimes just wearing an outfit 151 00:16:46,591 --> 00:16:48,127 That is out of character for you 152 00:16:48,895 --> 00:16:52,223 We're choosing a few props like glasses or a wig 153 00:16:52,991 --> 00:16:56,063 Can liberate an unexplored side of yourself 154 00:16:57,087 --> 00:17:00,927 Enjoy your freedom to play a sexy new role 155 00:18:54,335 --> 00:18:56,127 I can't believe you did this 156 00:18:56,383 --> 00:18:57,663 Me neither 157 00:19:01,503 --> 00:19:02,783 How did you get this place 158 00:19:03,295 --> 00:19:04,831 I borrowed it from my uncle 159 00:19:18,399 --> 00:19:21,983 Position yourself for experimentation 160 00:19:26,847 --> 00:19:28,895 Experimenting with sexual positions 161 00:19:29,407 --> 00:19:31,711 Is the secret to finding New Sensations 162 00:19:32,223 --> 00:19:35,039 And adapting to different moods and levels of energy 163 00:19:36,319 --> 00:19:38,111 The missionary position is easy 164 00:19:38,367 --> 00:19:41,183 And provides good stimulation for both partners 165 00:19:41,951 --> 00:19:48,095 What you should take advantage of the sexual building blocks available to your lovemaking when you're provocative with new sexual positions 166 00:19:54,239 --> 00:20:00,127 Woman On Top positions allow the female to take a more active role in love 167 00:20:02,175 --> 00:20:03,711 She can move up and down 168 00:20:03,967 --> 00:20:06,271 Or side to side to alter the speed 169 00:20:07,295 --> 00:20:08,831 An angle of penetration 170 00:20:13,695 --> 00:20:18,559 In this position 171 00:20:18,815 --> 00:20:22,655 The male partner can enjoy watching his lovers expressions of arousal 172 00:20:22,911 --> 00:20:25,983 Or just relax into his own Sensations 173 00:20:35,199 --> 00:20:38,783 Rear entry positions provide deeper penetration 174 00:20:39,807 --> 00:20:43,135 And stimulation of the sensitive front wall of the vagina 175 00:20:44,415 --> 00:20:48,255 The woman can move her hips to direct the penis to her favorite spot 176 00:20:50,047 --> 00:20:52,351 Love making needn't be confined to the bed 177 00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:59,263 Let other pieces of furniture Inspire new positions or new fantasies 178 00:20:59,519 --> 00:21:05,663 The scissors position allows you to make 179 00:21:08,479 --> 00:21:13,087 Both partners are free to caress each other while enjoying the intimacy of eye contact 180 00:21:14,367 --> 00:21:16,416 You're limited only by your imagination 181 00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:20,768 So enjoy this freedom to discover new worlds of pleasure 182 00:21:22,304 --> 00:21:26,912 Sexual positions 183 00:21:35,104 --> 00:21:38,688 An important secret to love making is after play 184 00:21:39,200 --> 00:21:41,248 The lingering moments following intercourse 185 00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:44,320 When you're feeling especially relaxed and satisfied 186 00:21:45,088 --> 00:21:46,368 This mood should be shared 187 00:21:47,136 --> 00:21:50,464 A time when physical intimacy gives way to emotional intimacy 188 00:21:51,232 --> 00:21:55,584 Enjoying this quiet time together can help establish a sense of total fulfillment 189 00:21:56,096 --> 00:22:02,240 Which will leave both of you looking forward to a lifetime of lovemaking 190 00:22:06,336 --> 00:22:10,176 Oral pleasure speaks the language of love 191 00:22:14,272 --> 00:22:20,160 Oral sex could be the most powerfully effective way to provide sexual pleasure to your lover 192 00:22:20,416 --> 00:22:24,000 Your mouth can be much more versatile than your genitals 193 00:22:24,768 --> 00:22:28,096 Welcome surprise 194 00:22:28,352 --> 00:22:34,496 The secret is to put your honey where your mouth is vibrate your tongue along the frenulum 195 00:22:34,752 --> 00:22:36,800 The Ridge of the underside of the penis 196 00:22:37,824 --> 00:22:42,688 Maintain the pressure as you slide your mouth off the penis 197 00:22:43,456 --> 00:22:47,808 Circle the penis with your tongue while moving up and down the shaft 198 00:22:48,064 --> 00:22:50,624 Massages testicles in perineum 199 00:22:51,136 --> 00:22:53,696 For a deliciously different sensation 200 00:22:53,952 --> 00:22:56,768 Try oral sex after putting an ice cube 201 00:22:57,024 --> 00:22:58,304 Sparkling water 202 00:22:58,560 --> 00:22:59,840 Or pudding in your mouth 203 00:23:00,608 --> 00:23:03,936 But nothing will turn your partner on more than the knowledge 204 00:23:04,192 --> 00:23:07,008 That you are enjoying the experience as well 205 00:23:08,032 --> 00:23:10,336 I hope you're enjoying this as much as I am 206 00:23:21,856 --> 00:23:22,624 Try and stop 207 00:23:30,816 --> 00:23:33,120 Play pleasuring your lover with oral sex 208 00:23:33,376 --> 00:23:35,936 Can be the highlight of your love making technique 209 00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:38,752 Begin by licking the outer 210 00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:42,336 And gently parting her inner lips with your tongue 211 00:23:43,360 --> 00:23:44,640 Take your time 212 00:23:45,152 --> 00:23:47,456 Before moving on to the clitoris 213 00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:51,808 Once your lover begins to grow flush with arousal 214 00:23:52,576 --> 00:23:56,672 It's time to turn your concentration to her most sensitive area 215 00:23:57,952 --> 00:24:00,512 The clitoris resembles a miniature penis 216 00:24:01,024 --> 00:24:02,304 Shave like a shaft 217 00:24:02,816 --> 00:24:04,352 With a very sensitive tip 218 00:24:05,120 --> 00:24:08,192 Begin by moving your tongue up and down the shaft 219 00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:11,264 Only occasionally teasing the tip 220 00:24:11,776 --> 00:24:15,360 Which can be too sensitive for much direct stimulation 221 00:24:17,408 --> 00:24:19,200 As your partner becomes aroused 222 00:24:19,712 --> 00:24:21,248 The clitoris becomes ER 223 00:24:22,272 --> 00:24:24,576 Since Every Woman reacts differently 224 00:24:25,088 --> 00:24:26,624 Let your partners response 225 00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:27,648 Let's be your guide 226 00:24:28,672 --> 00:24:30,720 Dart your tongue inside the vagina 227 00:24:31,744 --> 00:24:34,816 The amount of your partner's natural lubrication 228 00:24:35,072 --> 00:24:37,632 Will signal her level of arousal 229 00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:41,984 Discover the Rhythm that your lover finds most satisfying 230 00:24:42,752 --> 00:24:46,080 And concentrate on this continuous laughing motion 231 00:24:46,336 --> 00:24:47,872 Against the clitoris 232 00:24:48,384 --> 00:24:51,712 Until you deliver your lover to the doors of ecstasy 233 00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:55,808 You know what I 234 00:25:08,096 --> 00:25:12,704 Bring your erotic Persona to bed 235 00:25:17,312 --> 00:25:20,640 Every one of us has unique likes dislikes 236 00:25:20,896 --> 00:25:22,688 Dreams and desires 237 00:25:26,016 --> 00:25:29,600 Is the secret to exploring and expressing this uniqueness with your partner 238 00:25:31,136 --> 00:25:36,000 Sharing and acting out your fantasies together in a spirit of openness and acceptance 239 00:25:36,512 --> 00:25:39,584 Can help you develop a deeper Bond of trust and honesty 240 00:25:53,152 --> 00:25:59,296 You may find the Allure of certain clothing 241 00:25:59,552 --> 00:26:03,392 Latex silk or lace 242 00:26:03,904 --> 00:26:06,720 Can help give expression to your erotic persona 243 00:26:43,328 --> 00:26:49,472 As long as you and your partner agree on the parameters exploring the secret desires together 244 00:26:49,728 --> 00:26:51,008 Can bring you closer 245 00:26:51,264 --> 00:26:57,152 Revealing the deeper aspects of each other's personalities 246 00:26:57,408 --> 00:27:02,272 Turn around 247 00:27:09,184 --> 00:27:14,816 Take off my dress 248 00:27:24,544 --> 00:27:27,872 Kiss my butt 249 00:27:35,552 --> 00:27:39,392 Most men are still used to being the sexual instigator 250 00:27:40,416 --> 00:27:41,952 Switching the rules 251 00:27:42,208 --> 00:27:48,352 You allow your man to abandon these concerns and enjoy lovemaking from A New Perspective 252 00:28:48,256 --> 00:28:54,400 Some positions will allow 253 00:28:54,656 --> 00:28:56,960 Play female to take a dominant role in love making 254 00:28:57,216 --> 00:28:58,496 Choosing the Rhythm 255 00:28:58,752 --> 00:29:02,336 Speed and intensity she finds most satisfying 256 00:29:03,616 --> 00:29:06,176 Expressing your erotic personality in bed 257 00:29:06,432 --> 00:29:10,784 Can lead to some surprisingly deeply fulfilling sexual Adventures 258 00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:16,160 There are no rules Beyond those you and your lover agree on together 259 00:29:17,184 --> 00:29:19,744 Savor this freedom to enjoy each other 260 00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:20,768 Completely 261 00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:51,488 The weather the better 262 00:29:57,376 --> 00:30:01,984 Throughout history water has been symbolic for life and renewal 263 00:30:03,008 --> 00:30:04,800 What are symbolizes life 264 00:30:05,568 --> 00:30:07,616 Before life even existed 265 00:30:08,128 --> 00:30:10,176 It is the possibility of life 266 00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:13,504 What are also has purification 267 00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:15,808 Like in the tradition of baptism 268 00:30:16,832 --> 00:30:18,624 And water has been symbolic 269 00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:19,904 For the female 270 00:30:20,672 --> 00:30:22,720 The traditional symbol for water 271 00:30:22,976 --> 00:30:24,768 An upside down triangle 272 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:27,328 Is the same symbol for women 273 00:30:29,376 --> 00:30:33,216 Water has always been symbolically connected to sexuality 274 00:30:33,728 --> 00:30:35,008 But more directly 275 00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:38,848 Water is literally essential experience 276 00:30:44,736 --> 00:30:49,600 Another secret to creating a powerful sexual experience 277 00:30:49,856 --> 00:30:54,208 Is the concentrate on feeling the physical sensuality of water 278 00:30:54,976 --> 00:30:57,280 Whether you're in the bath or shower 279 00:30:57,792 --> 00:31:00,352 Or swimming out in the ocean or a pond 280 00:31:01,376 --> 00:31:04,704 Focus on the feel of water on your body 281 00:31:05,984 --> 00:31:08,032 What are pulsing on your skin 282 00:31:08,288 --> 00:31:10,336 Can feel just like a massage 283 00:31:10,848 --> 00:31:14,688 Stimulating blood flow tingling nerve endings 284 00:31:14,944 --> 00:31:17,248 Dissolving tension from your muscles 285 00:31:18,272 --> 00:31:20,832 Feel the different temperatures on your skin 286 00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:24,416 Feel your muscles stretching and relaxing 287 00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:28,000 The Chinese say that all Life Energy 288 00:31:28,256 --> 00:31:29,792 Archie energy 289 00:31:30,304 --> 00:31:32,352 Flows through us like a Rivers 290 00:31:35,168 --> 00:31:38,752 One of the lessons we learned from focusing on water 291 00:31:39,008 --> 00:31:41,312 Is the power of consistency 292 00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:48,224 Think of how a consistent single drop of water can a road of stone over enough 293 00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:52,320 Or Howard River can cut through Earth 294 00:31:52,832 --> 00:31:54,112 Inform a canyon 295 00:31:55,136 --> 00:31:57,952 The power and consistency of water 296 00:31:58,464 --> 00:32:00,512 Can transfer to your own life 297 00:32:01,024 --> 00:32:03,840 And can be used to improve your relationship 298 00:32:07,424 --> 00:32:10,240 If there are changes you want to make in your relationship 299 00:32:10,752 --> 00:32:12,544 Be clear on your goals 300 00:32:13,056 --> 00:32:15,360 Communicate well with your partner 301 00:32:15,616 --> 00:32:21,760 And be consistent 302 00:33:24,224 --> 00:33:30,368 Thirst is one of the most Primal instincts 303 00:33:31,136 --> 00:33:32,672 We thirst for water 304 00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:34,720 But metaphorically 305 00:33:34,976 --> 00:33:37,280 We thirst for love and fulfillment 306 00:33:38,048 --> 00:33:41,120 What are quenches are thirst in many ways 307 00:33:41,632 --> 00:33:43,936 Next time you're getting ready for a shower 308 00:33:44,192 --> 00:33:46,240 Invite your lover to join you 309 00:33:46,496 --> 00:33:52,640 Next time you and your partner make love jump in the bathtub afterwards for a relax 310 00:33:52,896 --> 00:33:54,432 Mixing in sensuous sound 311 00:33:54,944 --> 00:33:58,528 And the next time you catch your lover taking a quick shower 312 00:33:58,784 --> 00:34:02,368 Surprise him by soaping him up and washing him off 313 00:34:03,392 --> 00:34:06,464 Turn your everyday water experiences 314 00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:09,792 Into a Reawakening of your sensuality 315 00:34:10,048 --> 00:34:16,192 An intimacy 316 00:34:37,952 --> 00:34:42,560 The joy of using toys 317 00:35:21,472 --> 00:35:27,616 What can I do for you 318 00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:38,624 One secret to enjoying the playful aspects of lovemaking is the Discover the joy 319 00:35:40,416 --> 00:35:45,536 Toys or anything that can be used to create or enhance erotic Sensations with your lover 320 00:35:47,584 --> 00:35:50,656 You might begin with something as simple and effective 321 00:36:01,664 --> 00:36:07,552 Using a blindfold can heighten the other senses 322 00:36:08,064 --> 00:36:10,368 Allowing you to concentrate on smells 323 00:36:10,624 --> 00:36:12,672 Tastes sounds 324 00:36:12,928 --> 00:36:19,072 Unexpected 325 00:36:19,328 --> 00:36:20,864 Sensations 326 00:36:21,632 --> 00:36:27,776 An ice cube or frozen fruit bar can be applied to 327 00:36:28,032 --> 00:36:29,312 Play the body parts of your choosing 328 00:36:29,824 --> 00:36:35,968 Creating a cool erogenous Zone that will provide unique Sensations for both of you 329 00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:51,584 Providing your lover with textual Pleasures that Delight the skin and bring her body alive 330 00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:54,400 Give me a gift of Exquisite subtlety 331 00:36:54,656 --> 00:36:59,776 Setting the mood for a very erotic evening 332 00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:17,184 A rewarding aspect of treating your partner to these Sensations is watching 333 00:37:18,464 --> 00:37:21,280 In finding out how she chooses to return the favor 334 00:37:21,792 --> 00:37:27,936 Modern technology has brought us tools that can provide heat pressure and vibration 335 00:37:30,752 --> 00:37:34,592 Vibrators are an essential part of anyone's erotic toy chest 336 00:37:35,104 --> 00:37:40,736 A vibrator can be used to soothe tired muscles and bring the surface of the skin alive 337 00:37:41,504 --> 00:37:43,552 It'll inspire you to get creative 338 00:37:43,808 --> 00:37:47,648 I'm bringing unique and unexpected feelings to your Lover's body 339 00:37:56,096 --> 00:38:02,240 Sitting positions can be very 340 00:38:02,496 --> 00:38:03,264 Are you sexy 341 00:38:03,776 --> 00:38:07,872 So the sensations can be quite unique 342 00:38:08,896 --> 00:38:13,760 This position also allows them to see if close Embraces and Tender Kisses 343 00:38:14,784 --> 00:38:17,088 Mirrors for your own video camera 344 00:38:17,344 --> 00:38:19,904 Can I allow you to enjoy the role of voy 345 00:38:20,416 --> 00:38:26,560 You may find it very exciting to see yourself as your lover sees you 346 00:38:26,816 --> 00:38:32,960 But perhaps the best part of watching yourselves during sex is discovering how beautiful 347 00:38:34,752 --> 00:38:40,896 When you are embraced in the act of love 348 00:39:01,888 --> 00:39:08,032 Tantric techniques take you to 349 00:39:08,288 --> 00:39:10,848 What levels of intimacy 350 00:39:15,712 --> 00:39:19,552 Every sexual encounter is a celebration of Your Love 351 00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:23,904 An opportunity to reaffirm your dedication to each other 352 00:39:24,672 --> 00:39:26,208 Add to your relationship 353 00:39:27,232 --> 00:39:30,304 The Secret of tantric lovemaking is slow 354 00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:32,096 Relaxed movements 355 00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:34,656 By taking your time 356 00:39:34,912 --> 00:39:36,448 Breathing deeply 357 00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:40,032 And focusing on each sensation 358 00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:43,872 Sexual arousal becomes a state of rapture 359 00:39:44,384 --> 00:39:46,688 In which your mind becomes free of thought 360 00:39:46,944 --> 00:39:48,480 And full of Joe 361 00:39:59,232 --> 00:40:02,560 The concepts techn 362 00:40:02,816 --> 00:40:07,936 Tantric lovemaking do not demand strict adherence 363 00:40:08,704 --> 00:40:10,496 The key is to relax 364 00:40:10,752 --> 00:40:13,568 And be open to the experience of pleasure 365 00:40:14,336 --> 00:40:16,384 There are no rules and no goals 366 00:40:20,992 --> 00:40:23,552 You cannot will sexual ecstasy 367 00:40:23,808 --> 00:40:29,952 You can only create an opportunity for it to happen the idea is to enjoy 368 00:40:31,232 --> 00:40:36,608 Allow yourself to surrender to the sensations that are flowing through your body 369 00:41:24,224 --> 00:41:29,344 The opportunity for nonverbal expressions of trust 370 00:41:30,112 --> 00:41:34,464 Creating a relationship through which each partner draws both strength 371 00:41:34,720 --> 00:41:40,864 And pleasure from each other 372 00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:53,663 This position is known to Tantric 373 00:41:55,967 --> 00:42:01,343 Which allows you and your partner to relax and surrender to the feelings Rising within you 374 00:42:02,367 --> 00:42:06,207 As you focus on the sensations your body is feeling 375 00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:10,303 You begin to foresee The rhythms you share with your partners 376 00:42:11,583 --> 00:42:13,375 Heartbeats breathing 377 00:42:13,631 --> 00:42:16,191 And subtle body movements become synchronized 378 00:42:16,959 --> 00:42:20,799 Enhancing the feelings of love that flow between you 379 00:42:21,567 --> 00:42:24,127 The circle of energy you're creating 380 00:42:24,639 --> 00:42:27,199 Will produce a feeling of profound Unity 381 00:42:27,967 --> 00:42:29,759 In which you and your lover 382 00:42:30,271 --> 00:42:31,551 Seem to become one 383 00:42:37,183 --> 00:42:39,999 As you sense the approach of orgasm 384 00:42:41,279 --> 00:42:41,791 Pause 385 00:42:42,303 --> 00:42:45,119 And feel the Sexual Energy in your genitals 386 00:42:46,143 --> 00:42:46,911 Dried up 387 00:42:47,167 --> 00:42:48,447 Into your torso 388 00:42:49,215 --> 00:42:52,287 And try to feel the orgasmic Sensations there 389 00:42:53,567 --> 00:42:59,199 The male may experience the sensations of orgasm without ejaculating 390 00:42:59,711 --> 00:43:01,759 Using the techniques we've learned 391 00:43:03,039 --> 00:43:06,623 As you feel yourself approaching orgasm a second time 392 00:43:07,135 --> 00:43:09,183 Withhold ejaculation 393 00:43:10,207 --> 00:43:11,743 Let the Sexual Energy 394 00:43:11,999 --> 00:43:13,535 Flo from your genitals 395 00:43:14,047 --> 00:43:15,327 Up through your stomach 396 00:43:15,839 --> 00:43:16,863 Into your chest 397 00:43:17,119 --> 00:43:18,655 Best or heart chakra 398 00:43:19,423 --> 00:43:20,191 Finally 399 00:43:20,703 --> 00:43:23,263 As you approach orgasm of third time 400 00:43:24,287 --> 00:43:26,335 Squeeze your groin muscles tightly 401 00:43:26,847 --> 00:43:29,919 To shoot the Sexual Energy up the chakras 402 00:43:32,735 --> 00:43:35,295 As the feeling flows through your body 403 00:43:35,807 --> 00:43:38,879 Let the sensation take you over completely 404 00:43:39,903 --> 00:43:43,999 You will feel a wave of energy engulfing both of you 405 00:43:45,279 --> 00:43:49,119 As this intense wave of bliss washes over you 406 00:43:49,631 --> 00:43:52,447 You will experience a sense of melding 407 00:43:52,703 --> 00:43:53,727 With your partner 408 00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:56,799 Into a state of total Unity 409 00:43:57,567 --> 00:44:00,383 The real secret of the total orgasm 410 00:44:00,895 --> 00:44:03,967 Is that it isn't just a moment of physical pleasure 411 00:44:04,479 --> 00:44:07,039 It is the intense feeling of a deep 412 00:44:07,551 --> 00:44:09,599 Loving connection with your partner 413 00:44:10,367 --> 00:44:12,159 Where opposites cease to exist 414 00:44:12,671 --> 00:44:15,231 And your male and female Energies 415 00:44:15,487 --> 00:44:16,767 Flow together 416 00:44:17,023 --> 00:44:18,559 Incomplete Harmony 417 00:44:23,679 --> 00:44:28,543 Point the way to Pure Pleasure with erogenous massage 418 00:44:32,895 --> 00:44:39,039 Receiving a massage is an excellent way to block out all external thoughts and focus solely on your 419 00:44:40,575 --> 00:44:41,855 As your partner works on you 420 00:44:42,111 --> 00:44:46,975 The secret is to concentrate on both the physical and psychological responses 421 00:44:47,999 --> 00:44:50,047 As you give your lover his massage 422 00:44:50,303 --> 00:44:56,447 Appreciate the feeling of his body under the pressure of your fingers 423 00:45:36,127 --> 00:45:42,271 Our feet have a lot more to do with how we feel than we give them credit 424 00:45:43,551 --> 00:45:45,855 Sore feet can mean a sore disposition 425 00:45:46,879 --> 00:45:48,927 To feel energized and Powerful 426 00:45:49,183 --> 00:45:50,719 Treat your feet with care 427 00:45:51,231 --> 00:45:54,303 Remember your feet are your literal connection with the ground 428 00:45:54,815 --> 00:45:55,327 The Earth 429 00:45:56,863 --> 00:45:59,167 There are 26 separate bones in your foot 430 00:45:59,679 --> 00:46:02,495 And thousands of nerve endings in the sole of your foot 431 00:46:03,775 --> 00:46:05,055 Reflexology hold 432 00:46:05,311 --> 00:46:08,383 Is that because the other ends of these nerves end up all over the body 433 00:46:09,151 --> 00:46:11,711 There are specific points on the bottom of your foot 434 00:46:12,223 --> 00:46:15,807 Which directly correspond to all your internal organs and systems 435 00:46:16,831 --> 00:46:20,159 Your entire body 436 00:46:35,263 --> 00:46:41,407 Many of us hold a lot of our attention in our 437 00:46:41,663 --> 00:46:42,175 Play show muscles 438 00:46:43,455 --> 00:46:47,551 Massaged can be especially relaxing and sensuous 439 00:46:48,575 --> 00:46:49,855 And it's great for 440 00:46:52,927 --> 00:46:56,767 Our spine is responsible for our physical well-being in many ways 441 00:46:57,535 --> 00:47:00,607 It also affects our psychological and emotional states 442 00:47:02,143 --> 00:47:04,191 As you massage your partner's back 443 00:47:04,447 --> 00:47:07,519 Play special attention to the area along the spine 444 00:47:09,055 --> 00:47:12,127 The muscles in the back respond to stress by tensing up 445 00:47:12,639 --> 00:47:18,783 And a good back massage can be a very healing experience 446 00:47:49,247 --> 00:47:55,391 Fulfill your five senses 447 00:47:57,183 --> 00:48:01,279 Our five senses are directly related to how we feel 448 00:48:01,535 --> 00:48:03,839 Emotionally and physically 449 00:48:04,607 --> 00:48:08,447 You and your lover can combine all five senses 450 00:48:08,703 --> 00:48:11,263 For a pink love making experience 451 00:48:13,311 --> 00:48:16,639 The secret to the ultimate sensory experience 452 00:48:17,151 --> 00:48:19,199 Create a special time 453 00:48:21,759 --> 00:48:24,575 The caters to each and every sense 454 00:48:26,623 --> 00:48:28,927 Light incense or scented candles 455 00:48:29,439 --> 00:48:31,231 To provide a romantic aroma 456 00:48:36,095 --> 00:48:38,143 Nibble on your favorite food 457 00:48:39,167 --> 00:48:41,983 Design an area that pleases your sense of sight 458 00:48:42,751 --> 00:48:45,823 And wear something you find visually appealing 459 00:49:03,743 --> 00:49:06,047 Remember how important lighting is 460 00:49:06,815 --> 00:49:10,399 Try to avoid making love in a room lit with fluorescent lights 461 00:49:10,911 --> 00:49:12,959 They are known to make people irritable 462 00:49:13,727 --> 00:49:17,823 Colored lights especially warm colors like pink and orange 463 00:49:18,079 --> 00:49:20,383 Will make your skin tones look attractive 464 00:49:20,895 --> 00:49:22,943 And make you feel warm and sexy 465 00:49:23,455 --> 00:49:25,247 Include your favorite music 466 00:49:25,503 --> 00:49:26,783 To please your ears 467 00:49:29,599 --> 00:49:31,391 Remember that how you move 468 00:49:31,903 --> 00:49:33,183 Your body language 469 00:49:33,439 --> 00:49:35,999 Will also set the tone for lovemaking 470 00:49:36,767 --> 00:49:39,583 Moving in a slow sensual way 471 00:49:39,839 --> 00:49:41,375 Makes you feel sexy 472 00:49:41,887 --> 00:49:44,191 And tells your partner how you feel 473 00:49:44,703 --> 00:49:47,263 Be directing your signals to your partner 474 00:49:49,823 --> 00:49:51,359 Smile at each other 475 00:49:51,615 --> 00:49:54,943 The power of the smile cannot be overestimated 476 00:49:55,711 --> 00:49:57,247 Smiling and laughing 477 00:49:57,503 --> 00:49:59,551 Pause the release of endorphins 478 00:50:00,063 --> 00:50:02,879 The chemical in your brain that elevates your mood 479 00:50:03,391 --> 00:50:07,231 Another effective way to concentrate on your sensual side 480 00:50:07,487 --> 00:50:10,303 Is to try some deep breathing exercises 481 00:50:11,071 --> 00:50:13,631 Deep breathing oxygenates the body 482 00:50:14,143 --> 00:50:16,959 Causing an elevated state of well-being 483 00:50:17,471 --> 00:50:21,055 As you focus all your sensory perception on each other 484 00:50:21,567 --> 00:50:26,175 You become receptive to the many ways you communicate your desire for each other 485 00:50:39,999 --> 00:50:40,767 The 486 00:50:42,303 --> 00:50:42,815 The 487 00:50:43,839 --> 00:50:49,983 You see how each and every sense can cause you to experience specific feelings and emotions 488 00:50:51,263 --> 00:50:55,871 And you can utilize this potent link between your sensory experiences 489 00:50:56,383 --> 00:50:57,919 And your state of mind 490 00:50:58,175 --> 00:51:02,527 In order to have the ultimate in sensuous love making with your partner 491 00:51:03,551 --> 00:51:06,367 Your five senses are so powerful 492 00:51:06,623 --> 00:51:10,463 That if you learn to associate a specific sensory experience 493 00:51:11,231 --> 00:51:14,559 Like the feel of a soft feather against your skin 494 00:51:14,815 --> 00:51:16,863 With a heightened emotional state 495 00:51:17,631 --> 00:51:20,959 You will be able to re-experience that same mood 496 00:51:21,215 --> 00:51:24,287 Every time you recreate the sensory experience 497 00:51:30,687 --> 00:51:35,807 All the senses are equally capable of being linked with emotions and moods 498 00:51:37,087 --> 00:51:39,391 Do you and your lover have a special song 499 00:51:40,415 --> 00:51:42,975 Chances are that whenever you hear your song 500 00:51:43,487 --> 00:51:46,559 You are so strongly reminded of the time you shared it 501 00:51:47,327 --> 00:51:47,839 Stop it 502 00:51:48,095 --> 00:51:49,631 Every time you hear it 503 00:51:49,887 --> 00:51:52,703 You can emotionally relive the experience 504 00:51:53,983 --> 00:51:56,799 Your sense of hearing is so powerful 505 00:51:57,311 --> 00:51:59,103 The just listening to a song 506 00:51:59,615 --> 00:52:03,199 Can completely alter your physical and emotional state 507 00:52:04,479 --> 00:52:06,271 This kind of Association 508 00:52:06,527 --> 00:52:07,551 Or anchoring 509 00:52:08,063 --> 00:52:10,367 Is an extremely potent to 510 00:52:15,743 --> 00:52:20,607 It gives you the power to excite your lover in ways you never dreamed of 511 00:52:21,375 --> 00:52:25,215 And to create Peak intimate experiences for both of you 512 00:52:25,983 --> 00:52:28,287 When you cater to each of your senses 513 00:52:28,543 --> 00:52:31,871 An anchor a peak emotional state to a food 514 00:52:32,127 --> 00:52:32,895 An aroma 515 00:52:33,407 --> 00:52:34,431 A kind of touch 516 00:52:34,943 --> 00:52:35,711 A 517 00:52:36,223 --> 00:52:37,759 A piece of clothing 518 00:52:38,015 --> 00:52:39,295 Or a photograph 519 00:52:39,807 --> 00:52:43,647 You are taking full advantage of your powerful senses 520 00:52:45,439 --> 00:52:49,279 When it lasts you can find all your sensory experiences 521 00:52:49,791 --> 00:52:55,167 You and your partner will enjoy a Transcendent sexual encounter 522 00:52:55,935 --> 00:53:00,799 And remember how the five senses can help you continue to excite your lover 523 00:53:01,567 --> 00:53:03,359 Even after you've made love 524 00:53:04,127 --> 00:53:05,407 Lie together 525 00:53:06,687 --> 00:53:07,711 Share a drink 526 00:53:08,223 --> 00:53:09,503 And caress each other 527 00:54:03,007 --> 00:54:09,151 Now that we've revealed Playboy's best have sex Secrets find the person 528 00:54:09,407 --> 00:54:15,551 Can you want to share them with and set the course for your own Unforgettable Journey towards discovery 529 00:54:15,807 --> 00:54:17,343 Hurry before long 530 00:54:17,599 --> 00:54:21,695 You and your lover will have your own Intimate Secrets to share 531 00:54:22,207 --> 00:54:28,351 Feeling your days to come with both desire and Delight